Friendship in our teenage chaos (a love letter)

Dear Friends (or the ones who once had a place in my heart),

I’m sitting down today to dedicate this post to all the people I care for — or at least once cared for. I’ve made a lot of friends in life. Some were true, some stayed only for a purpose, and well… some just left. I’ve had my fair share of broken friendships, heartbreaks, grief — and so much fun too.

But today, I just want to say: I’m grateful to each and every one of you. Even if we’re not together anymore, I value the way you’ve helped shape me. Some supported me. Some back-bitched. But every single one of you taught me lessons I’ll never forget.

To my closest ones who stayed — I’m honored to have you in my life. You’ve stood by me through every high and low, and your support during my darkest moments means more than words can ever say. You are my “found family,” and I’ll cherish you, always.

To those who’ve drifted away — I won’t get into whose fault it was. All I know is, the memories we made together will stay with me. Whether you betrayed me, took me for granted, or just outgrew me, I still value the role you once played. You were a part of my story, and for that, I’m thankful.

THANK YOU, EVERYONE!

I won’t name many people specifically — except two. One who’s stayed with me since nursery (if you’ve read my first post, you already know who he is)...And someone you all might not know much about.

Aadi —I mean, I won’t even say thank you to you. That feels way too small for what you mean to me. Even after everything, you’ve stayed by my side through it all, and that’s what matters. Our fights, our stupidest moments — it’s all proof that I’m not alone. We were growing up, and sometimes growing apart - but still, we chose each other. Over and over again. I hope this bond never breaks (and if it ever does — I’ll kill you, you know that! 😂).

And now, someone truly special. She isn’t always in my posts, but since this one’s about friendship…She HAS to be here.

My Mother —My first-ever best friend. My rock. My everything. Maa, I can’t go a day without yapping away to you. It feels weird if I don’t. You’re the real friend I’ll always trust the most. Everyone else left — except for a few. But you stayed. You taught me how to move on in life. You’re my biggest blessing, Mumma. I love you so, so, sooo much. Muah 💖

In the end, life moves on. People change. Relationships evolve. But the impact you’ve had on me — no matter how big or small — will always stay. This isn’t a goodbye or a plea to reconnect. It’s simply a note of gratitude. Thank you for being a part of my journey. I carry a piece of each of you with me as I grow, love, and live.

This is Tanissha, signing off. Byeeeeee 💫